I am realizing more and more that there is one huge misconception between men and women as far as friendships go: women actually believe guys just like being nice to, and doing favors for, and being friends with, women. (Really?)
Ladies:-
The cold truth; NO MAN wants to be your friend. Might sound extreme or ridiculous, or even insane, but this is the truth. No man has ever aimed to be your friend. Women are way too demanding for any man to just willingly enter into a friendship. Women need everything from time to alcohol in order that a friendship works; a reality that is as clear as day. Now don’t get me wrong, a man would settle for friendship, but trust, that’s not what he wanted.
There are two types of men that exist as far as this goes and I will shed light on them.
1. The one that “plays his position”; he settles for less, and takes friendship on like a champ, no complaints, anytime, whenever you want. He’s also the guy that somewhere deep down inside is holding out, waiting for his chance, the day you call his name.
2. The one that never settles for less, and as such once he realizes nothing is happening, he moves the hell on. May say hello, even talk to you from time to time, but he’s definitely not what you would call your guy friend, and he definitely is not the one you call for favors and other ridiculous stuff.
Women believe in this handyman that enjoys their company and presence so much so that he’s willing to bend over backwards, and is on call 24/7. He’s a myth. The dude you pictured when you read that sentence, probably pictured you naked at that same time (if you don’t want to hear me please listen to Steve Harvey. )
Of your guy friends right now, how many of them can you say truly never seemed to be attracted to you, or never made a move etc, etc?
If the answer is none, then you my friend are in denial. Don’t be technical in your assessment of what a guy friend is.
Alright maybe there are like 2 exceptions in the whole world (I admit). But otherwise,
Sorry,
We like you,
but just not that much.
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Wednesday, July 1, 2009 by Andre
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7 comments:
Well said my brother. Like all guyz out there, I too have heard the six letter curse word: FRIEND and recoiled in horror. FRIEND is worse than F@*K U in my honest opinion and regardless what any guy say...even if they are your "friend"...they would still tap that ass if the opportunity presents itself.
This is funny! But there is some truth to this. Women like to have guy friends because they are cool to chill with, and you dont have to be in competition with them, but this really only works when the guy is not attracted to the girl.
i so agree wit the person who made the 1st comment , there is nothin worse than wen u really like a girl and she then curses u with that horrid word friend, i dont think i acually have any frenz who are girls by my choice. its alrite 2 b a friend but but dont miss the b/f gap or u stuck with a friendship with u wantin more
I agree with yr opinion but I have to say I have a lot of friends who are women and I DON'T want to be with them in anyway shape or form, lol. So I think it depends on who the girl is.
Well my friend above me with all the women friends, maybe you are a fruitcake, (bcuz girls love to hang with fruitcakes) or the girls you hang with are totally "toed up" or disgustingly fat..hahahahaha
I think it's possible for a man to have non-romantic feelings for a female. Some men are not interested in pursuing a relationship or anything else with them. Could be they aren't attracted to them... Whatever the reason, there are always exceptions to the rule.
Thanks for the comments. Let's try to keep it as constructive and as respectful as possible.
S
yes sam there exceptions to the rule , but we are talkin about girls who are attractive as urself, so i'm tellin u cause andre already knows this, if given the chance many of ur so called male (frenz)would love to b wit u, unlucky 4 them u found 1 of the best out there , lol
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